Why I kept my baby after finding out he had Down syndrome
My Oma was born in a little village near the town of Hadamar. Hadamar sits in the shadow of a tall hill called Mönchberg – Monk’s Mountain. On top of that hill stands an old Franciscan monastery, which was converted into a state hospital and nursing home in 1803. In 1940, however, that hospital was […]
Single mothers are the heroines, not the villains
Melinda Tankard Reist Rosie became pregnant at 17 last year. She was labelled a slut. Melissa, 14, ran away from home so her parents couldn’t force her to have an abortion. Jackie, 33, had a violent partner who didn’t want their baby. There was no public housing available and refuges were full. She […]
Please understand what it is like to be pregnant and unsupported: two women appeal to MPs
‘I just wish that people had more of an open dialogue about what pregnancy really means to you as a woman’ Dear Senator Bernardi, There has been a lot of talk in the media about your recent comments about abortions. I thought I would share my story with you. Being in a toxic relationship and […]
“I would never go through that again”: Women have a right to know risks of abortion drug
Advocates obliged to put an end to misconceptions Recent publicity for abortion drug RU486 has given women assurances of its safety. The drug is promoted as do-it-yourself, easy, private and ”more natural”. In this pro-RU486 spin, the voices of women harmed by the chemical cocktail have been drowned out. ”Rose”, 27, from South Australia, shares […]
“I gave her a death sentence”: the sonographer who regrets disclosing baby’s sex
WHEN Melbourne sonographer Jane (not her real name) told the young Afghani Muslim bride that she was expecting a girl, she felt she had just handed out a death sentence. “It was the worse scan in my 15 years in the profession,” she told me. “My patient came in recently for a routine 20-week obstetric […]
‘That’s my son you’re talking about’: defending children with disabilities from those who say they shouldn’t live
DO yourself a favour. Stop what you are doing, log on to YouTube and watch a short film called Be My Brother. Starring Gerard O’Dwyer and created by 20-year-old Genevieve Clay, Be My Brother took out the award for best film at the 2009 Tropfest. Gerard was named best actor. Gerard is a young man […]
Klein and Hawthorne on feminism and MTR
By Renate Klein and Susan Hawthorne Since the publication of Rachael Hills’s article “Who’s Afraid of Melinda Tankard Reist” (and see her reflections two weeks later) at least ten on-line and print media articles have joined in a public dissection and commentary along the lines of, “she’s a conservative religious fundamentalist” and “she’s pro-life and […]
‘They kill her baby and they make her suffer’: horror stories from China
Suffering unlimited Recently, Xinran, the Chinese-English journalist and author of Messages from an Unknown Chinese Mother: the lives of women in contemporary China, visited Australia to talk about her new book. It is a collection of real life stories told by Chinese women forced to abandon their babies for social, political and historical reasons. You […]
Pregnant teens should wear hessian bags
With a big scarlet letter on the back as a sign of their shame In the US, teen fashion chain ‘Forever 21’ has launched what has been labelled a “controversial” maternity line called Love 21 Maternity. The range can be found in Forever 21 stores in five states. Apparently, three of these states have the […]