Sexual Harassment isn’t a joke
But Alannah Hill acts like it is When a woman makes a joke about sexual harassment and claims she wishes she had been ‘touched up’ by the man at the centre of harassment claims, you see just how entrenched is the idea that harassment is just a bit of fun and that women really want […]
“I’m staring at your tits”: Why sexual harassment in the workplace continues
How ‘playing the game’ contributes to a hostile working environment for women Catching up on a pile of newspapers (new social media may have captivated me – sent my 1000th tweet on the weekend – but a stack of papers still gives me a thrill), I came across an article titled ‘The only way is […]
Revenge: Slash her face so no one will want her
More Reasons to Hate Lad’s Mags: Zoo advises spurned lover to slash ex girlfriend’s face I’ve written before about lad’s magazines which thrive on the objectification of women and act as porn training wheels for boys. Now Zoo has run an advice column by British hardman actor Danny Dyer urging a heartbroken reader to “cut his […]
Bitches, sluts, not marriageable, too pretty: Is any girl good enough?
Since my last piece on the cyberbullying taking place through Facebook, other sites targeting girls for their alleged flaws have been found. One identifying young women not considered “marriage material”. Another naming and shaming ‘12-year-old sluts’. Another for girls labelled “bitches”. British girl Poppy Bracey recently took her life as a result of a cyber bullying campaign […]
Facebook Slut Page Removed: but bullies still active
On the weekend – on the eve of International Women’s Day – I wrote about a Facebook slut page, arguing it enabled cyber bullying, stalking and harassment. On the page, photos were posted of girls and women who were labelled ‘sluts’. One was 10-years-old. Another had been bashed (she deserved it, she was a slut). A […]
Facebook’s New Slut Page: a monument to girl hatred
Since when did it become okay to hate women and girls so publicly and to judge them so mercilessly? There’s a new page on Facebook. It’s only two weeks old but already has more than a million members. I’m not going to post the link but of course it is easy to find. You don’t […]
Don’t let the bullies win: five things to do if you are bullied or sexually harassed at work
Following my blog posts on the death-by-bullying case of Brodie Panlock, I asked my friend and colleague Sarah McMahon, (above), a consultant psychologist and accredited mediator who has counseled many victims of workplace bullying, to provide advice to those who are subjected to bullyling at work. Keep detailed notes of events- and keep these as […]
Sexualised images contribute to workplace harassment
My friend Cordelia Fine had a terrific piece in the SMH and Age yesterday Feel sorry for Kiely, but pity more his female colleagues in which she makes the case that sexualised images in the workplace undermine women. Even as psychologists learn more about how gender stereotypes adversely affect women trying to gain ground in […]