‘I think a bullet might hurt a little bit less than this loneliness’: The Instagram fad normalising suicidal yearnings as fashionable

‘The glamorising and approval of teen girl audiences of the captioned desire to depart from life is surely one of the most dangerous digital conversations unfolding today’   These postings provide a snapshot of the Instagram dialogue trending amongst Australian adolescent girls. It is a virtual battleground of life and death on the popular image-sharing […]

Does a ‘loving family man’ violently shoot his wife and kids?

The Hunt family murder-suicide. This is what needs to be said. Nina Funnell perfectly echoes my own thoughts on the murder of a mother and three children by their husband and father.  By NINA FUNNELL Trigger warning: This post deals with violence against women and children, suicide and other distressing topics. It may be triggering […]

Teen girl takes life after boys share image of her graffitied and defaced body

Sexting, Shame and Suicide: a shocking story of sexual assault in the digital age This essay  was published last September but I’ve only just come across it. I keep thinking of Audrie and her body defaced and graffitied, the images shared and consumed. Her waking in horror to discover the markings all over her body […]

Girlfriend August issue: the plague of anxiety and importance of Sleep

The two most important articles in this issue are on anxiety and the importance of sleep. Anxiety appears to be a plague on our girls right now. ‘Feeling anxious? How to deal when your worries take over your life’ looks at the symptoms of anxiety and how to recognise when it is impacting on your […]

Glamourising Suicide

And making fun of suffering: does Girlfriend want to be seen as a mean girl? [Self harm trigger warning. If you need help, contact Suicide Prevention Australia ] So, we’ve just marked World Suicide Prevention Day. World Suicide Prevention Day on 10 September promotes worldwide commitment and action to prevent suicides. On average, almost 3000 […]

Bitches, sluts, not marriageable, too pretty: Is any girl good enough?

Since my last piece on the cyberbullying taking place through Facebook, other sites targeting girls for their alleged flaws have been found.  One identifying young women not considered  “marriage material”.  Another naming and shaming ‘12-year-old sluts’.  Another for girls labelled “bitches”.  British girl Poppy Bracey recently took her life  as a result of a cyber bullying campaign […]

To Brodie: I wish we could have helped you

I can’t stop thinking about Brodie Panlock. Brodie was 19 when she took her life following unrelenting bullying at the Melbourne café where she worked as a waitress. This is what the men at her workplace did to her: They poured fish oil into her bag and in her hair and clothes. They called her […]